Wednesday, 12 August 2015

Happy little vegimite!

I want to pinch myself one minute, and in the next, I fear I have awoken the Bear!! My man is being amazing. (shhh don't tell him that tho) - Oh who am I kidding, I tell him all the time!

I have been unwell... it seems to be ongoing I know!  So we have not played as much as we would have liked. But he has been great, also, really showing his dominance in everything we do. Bringing up ideas he has, asking me for my opinion. Talking about going to munches and getting to know other kinksters.

We went camping last weekend with friends, (crazy cause its the middle of winter here!) Well I say camping, it was more like Glamping. It was in an old farm house with electricity, and a working stove, a toilet but no running water. So we took up our heaters, our mattresses and bedding and spent a great weekend away with friends playing board games and Dungeons and Dragons. BTW, any who know the game will understand the irony that I am the Dungeon Master!! The only time I get to boss around my husband!

It was a clear night, on Sunday, and most of us decided to take a walk around the property to see if we could find any nocturnal wildlife. We didn't I think we were just to loud.

Hubby thought this was a great time to be octopus hands in the pitch black, only a few feet away from my friends. Groping me in so many places, I swear he grew another two hands! I am not into the whole exhibitionist thing. But this was very hot, I think because it was so open, yet still so private just for us.

He has mentioned that he would like to do some edge play. This really scares me, and I told him so, he said, that, that is the whole idea. He says its about trust. I said I would think on it. I want to give it a go, because I really want him to do something in this just for his pleasure.

I am looking forward, (and a little bit trepidatious) for the future with this new Bear I have poked!


  1. I'm so happy you are having a good time. There were things I knew my husband wanted to try for years that I simply wouldn't. Once we became closer after I came out I found I was willing to try nearly anything - we talked and I agreed to try and he agreed to stop if I asked him to. Of if I tried it once and didn't like it we wouldn't do it again. It seems so simple, but it really worked for us.

  2. Thanks PK. I love how this makes us closer. We talk and be honest about what we want without the normal BS. I will try for him but make sure we have steps ib place that will allow it to stop. I know he has already started thinking about that too.

  3. Hi Linda, love your glamping, wonderful but freezing in this weather. good luck trying new things with your husband, hope it works out and you enjoy it.
    Lindy x